This cracks me up ... 
.....hahahaha  

I dunno how anybody does this every month like the hardcore people do.  (Can you imagine?!)

As a game, well yeah. If you can purposefully withhold physical pleasure for a spell, then the rebound intensity of pleasure that you can bestow is mindblowing. Like shaking a champagne bottle before uncorking it. There are real upsides of having a lover who admires and rewards selfdiscipline.

But any exertion of selfcontrol for its own sake is a kick in the face.

I am having mixed feelings. On the one hand, why would anyone do this??!! But on the other hand, I DO admire selfcontrol. Displays of it are hot. To a point.