"There’s things that move a man. Like currents of water inside. Things he can’t help. Older I got, the more I found it true. Getting grown means learning how to work that current: learning when to hold fast, when to drop anchor, when to let it sweep you up. And it could be something simple as sex, or it could be something as complicated as falling in love.." ~Sing, Buried, Sing, Jesmyn Ward