water

I unclenched my memory fists and made a pocket of air in which I put a lake property the size of that bubble. here.

here I have been thinking, trying to. I hear a woman nearby talking about Melrose Place, perhaps someone famous died again

Roe v Wade was overturned today. I don't hear anyone talking about it. so much of what I have been thinking = my choices were often between a rock and a hard place (I chose the rock and it got harder or chose the hard place that turned to cement). is it any wonder I'm unhappy with that? with my life feeling about to end any day now, and looking back there is so much HARD ROCK? I can't imagine a girl like me, a girl like I was, is well served by having even fewer choices than I did

imagine a layer of hard over water, an air bubble under the hard layer, one big enough for the whole face of a woman

50 Cent - Many Men

I’m sorry I keep saying How are you? when I really mean Are you happy?

If you find yourself trapped inside a dimming world, remember it was always this dark inside the body. Where the heart, like any law, stops only for the living. 

If you forget me, then you’ve gone too far. Turn back.

"no ambivalence (dogs only)"

 

Maybe in the next life we’ll meet each other for the first time—believing in everything but the harm we’re capable of. Maybe we’ll be the opposite of buffaloes. We’ll grow wings and spill over the cliff as a generation of monarchs, heading home..

everything feels heavy, it doesn't matter where I am, and I (have to) decide to breathe 

he explained that once to me, breathing, the way a ventilator makes your body forget how to breathe, he said, and I remember how I thought that can't be precisely correct because it suggests you had to learn how to breathe in the first place but breathing is automatic, I thought 

wisconsin

 

I have a new phone. I hate that. I only do so when my phone hopelessly dies. One of the many reasons I hate it, besides that it's bad for the planet and makes assholes rich, is that I know none of my passwords.  It takes days to figure out how to log into things again. Such as this blog. Just getting into the Hotmail associated with it is like archeology. The lady ahead of me at the phone store was trying to recover her shit from AOL. I didn't know that existed still. I thought welp at least I'm not trying to log into anything through PARIS 🤨

I am grateful that I can still log into here, tho blogger is unsupported and glitchy. Nobody blogs anymore. Everyone moved to SOCIAL social media and lost their fucking minds there. People lie there. The lying started with posts about how awesome your life was, Lake Woebegonesque, everyone's children were above average. It was just bullshit, then it grew to monstrous. Lying tends not to turn out well, generally.

This blogspace is like a mall that closed, it used to be noisy and lit up but now it's quiet and I tape notes on the wall to record the time(s). 

This is the time that everyone is "over" COVID. I went to the farmer's market today and was the only person wearing a mask. I am getting over it too but in different fashion - I am giving up what I collected during the pandemic's early years 2020-2022. Like drinking. Drunk texting with friends, us all killing time with abandon, saying crazy shit to each other, it had its moment. 

I'm not sure what comes next, for better or worse.

"setting:faded"

But let me see if—using these words as a little plot of land and my life as a cornerstone— I can build you a center. —Qiu Miaojin

On my next book tour the theme was monkeys, and on the latest one it was items men shove inside themselves and later have to go to the emergency room to have extracted. This started when an ER nurse told me about a patient she’d seen earlier in the week who had pushed a dildo too far up his ass. The door had shut behind it, so he’d tried fishing it out with a coat hanger. When that proved the wrong tool for the job, he’d snipped it with wire cutters, then gone after both the dildo and the cut-off hanger with a sturdier, fresh hanger. You hear this from doctors and nurses all the time: their patients shove light bulbs inside themselves, shampoo bottles, pool balls…and they always concoct some incredible story to explain their predicament. “I tripped” is a big one. And, OK, I’m pretty clumsy. I trip all the time, but never have I gotten back on my feet with a pepper grinder up my ass, not even a little bit. I’m pretty sure I could tumble down all the stairs in the Empire State Building—naked, with a greased-up rolling pin in each hand and a box of candles around my neck—and still end up in the lobby with an empty rectum. Another common excuse is “I accidentally sat on it.” Implied is that you were naked at the time and this can of air freshener that just happened to be coated with Vaseline went all the way up inside you. “I must have left it on the sofa when I came home from work and took a shower. Then I sat down to watch the news the way I usually do, and, well, you know the rest.” A week into my tour—again because I’d mentioned the story onstage—a nurse handed me an X-ray of a man’s pelvis with a set of hand weights in it. How on earth? I thought, imagining the work that must have taken. And to follow the first with a second? Who does that? Days later I saw an X-ray of a Bose speaker inside someone. “And it was still connected to Bluetooth,” the woman who showed it to me whispered...By the time a nurse told me about a patient who had inserted an electric toothbrush inside himself, and another who’d managed a two-liter bottle of Diet Mtn Dew, I was so inured that I said only, “Wait a minute. Diet?” ~ Happy Go Lucky, David Sedaris

I used to really laugh. Now I rarely smile.

Ya cant breathe only your own personal air cz that is not how Earth works #toldya

pandemic 3rd spring scrapbooking

Dball's spring fling

diamond remix ft handfasting ice

"good morning!"

nasturtium sprouts

spring ("Bad Guys") soundtrack

Good Tonight

Go. (Chemical Brothers)

Brand New Day

Feelin Alright (Elle King) - my fave - repost

We need to focus on mental health my ass. Nobody cares about mental health until a mass shooting, like nobody gives a shit about women's sports unless they're "guarding it" against trans women. And so much for the logic of arming the good guys - the security guard at Tops shot the shooter, and that didn't stop the son of a bitch from reloading and shooting someone's mother again. And EVERYBODY is ARMED in fucking TEXAS, and yet the "good guys" stood around with their thumbs up their asses not fingers on any triggers. The unarmed CHILDREN were on their own. 

"as children faced an imminent threat inside, officers busied themselves corralling parents, patrolling the barrier with Tasers and even handcuffing and subduing parents on the ground if they didn’t comply"

= the truth of this country at this moment in history: We. Suck. Sheeple armed to the teeth with zero collective give-a-shit. And God save our children. Because we will not. Not from any of it, the bullets the racism the poverty the hopelessness. 

You can't save only your own kids, viruses don't work like that, bacteria doesn't work like that, and this rising tide of menace is in the air like COVID, in the water like cholera. You cannot breathe only your own personal air, that's not how Earth works. You think your little world will survive the failure of the human experiment entirely? Really? Anyone who believes that is displaying signs of mental illness. Our working our asses off to get enough toilet paper and ramen hoarded for our own kids is just how we are apologizing to them for royally fucking up ev er y thing. 

The older I get, the more I have to take solace from knowing that the planet will be fine. Without us, I mean. The planet will shake us off like fleas. We weren't meant to survive, we were made to implode like one of those small but heavy stars that goes kaboom out there in the galaxy and spews out some nano something thus contributing to Life in ways that my little mind can't fathom. 

Which is a shame bc there is only one species that does art. And we ain't shit sometimes.

Tempo - Lizzo ft. Missy E

Bonus track - we are forward thinking in Buffalo, we aren't gonna wait to handcuff concerned parents until bullets are flying, we will tie their hands behind their backs all the damn time! 🤘

the radio game

Play me a song? 

train - soul sister

Ha! That's where sisterdawg came from #retrogreek 🤷‍♀️

"I wish I had a magic wand."

what me worry

portugal the man

I miss thunder down the gorge, so fucking amazing. First really good thunder storm of the season is always magic. And the shih tzus are always giant pussies about it. It is as if it's brand new for all of us, every year. #wonderment

pandemic scrapbooking

 

what/who is in my bed (spot em?)

boulders #ragegardening

friday the 13th solo adventure ft. west seneca

Former Buffalo Fire Commissioner Garnell Whitfield Jr., who lost his 86-year-old mother, Ruth Whitfield, in the shooting, asked how the country could allow its history of racist killings to repeat itself.

“We’re not just hurting. We’re angry,” Whitfield said at a news conference with civil rights attorney Ben Crump and others. “We treat people with decency, and we love even our enemies.”

“And you expect us to keep doing this over and over and over again — over again..”

if looks could kill

elle king - feelin alright