VIRGO You want to feel as though you belong to someone, but you don't want to feel controlled. You want to call someone yours with the idea that you own some of the relationship but not the person. Boundaries get worked out.

Wow. That horoscope so gets me. Hey horoscope, are you single? C'mere, let me smell you...

(snort)

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Weekend love horoscope VIRGO: Mistakes must happen in any interesting life. Accepting more than your share of responsibility for them is the big hearted way to go.

(headtilt)

I am trying something new: doing nothing. It is 2 p.m. and so far I have managed to do nothing only by putting myself in the tub. And now, I want to bleach that grout. But I am not going to.

 "Power can mean the ability to get things done, especially for others. By that definition, women in the academy have power aplenty."

My job and my love life have conspired to make me incredibly effective on my own. At my own expense too much.

VIRGO People show and feel caring differently. The closer these match up, the happier the relationship will be. Chances are, someone is caring for you in ways you don't recognize as care.


I see zero evidence. So yea.


No song, no weekend lovescope, I am out. Seeing my sister..

I have had very few long-term lovers. I genuinely love(d) them. I do not know what they felt/thought in return. One, I took on his student loans after pushing him into school - he died very young, so I hardly can hold a grudge,Two others, I thought they deserved what they aspired to be, so I cut them the slack they needed - I am not sure now, so God will judge, but this I know: you did not pay it back to me, so you are still owing someone. One fathered my sons then left the country, a luxury that Canada affords asshats.

At no time did anyone ask me, What are your professional aspiraions? Ever.

If I ever have a lover again (apparently doubtful), here is the thing: my clitoris goes off like an AR15 if you talk to it right and SO DOES MY MIND.  Ask me what I want to achieve.

VIRGO People working things out together — it's a form of love, or maybe it just is love. That's what you'll get today, and even better, you'll appreciate it. Special connections: Gemini and Libra.

All I ever do is work.

I learned some things about the remodeler guy. They leave him here alone for days, no authority to change/add to the job (construction is like writing - it takes shape as you do it, so you MUST revise) so sometimes he is stuck, like the flooring isn't here yet, and there is yet another cousin falling down on that. He is worried, only 8 more days, then he has a ticket to go home to his woman, in Belarus (talk about a commute!).  He won't be done maybe, though. He is fretting about it, so after my hike and before the flu shot I got him the wallpaint, so he can feel useful whether the baseboard heat units arrive in time or not.

I would rather spend my time getting to know nice people better that I already know than trying to score. So it is just as well nobody dropped from the sky today.

bad romance - gaga
on repeat

VIRGO  The potential for fresh faces is high today. You've the space for a new friend to drop into your world. If the other person also has the room, things will develop very quickly. If not, it will be a slow-grow situation.

Welp, I have room for it (grrrrRRrrr). But do I really? I am very busy..

Observation: now that I am chair, I have direct oversight of faculty time. How they spend it and on what. A third of my department get their romantic companionship at a distance. This was a long weekend, so they all went there or it came to them. Ohio, Indiana,  Connecticut, Toronto, NYC. I put my 'out of office' autoreply on my email over the long weekend so nobody would feel obliged to check it - if I set my own time aside, they can too. Upshot: if I set my own time aside, I make room for you to do the same.

I am going to Letchworth for the day, sniff the air and see fall leaves, making room for the beauty of the world.

befores and durings

Last major project, third floor attic into living space.

VIRGO It's the little ways a person shows you that he or she is paying attention that will go straight to your heart and turn someone into your favorite in an instant.

Me: let's buy another dress or get botox or some shit
   

Inner me: it's not you, it's me

hozier - nina cried power ft mavis (fuck yea)

the mysteries of tulip weeks revealed
My IQ is probably average. Mere hormones are the secret powers my achievements. So hormonal, she can leap tall buildings etc.

A data research company, Priceonomics, suggests that Monday is the most productive day of the week and that October is the most productive month of the year. My research suggests that while Capricorns tend to be the most consistently productive of all the signs in the zodiac, Virgos often outstrip them for a six-week period during the end of each September and throughout October. Furthermore, my intuition tells me that you Virgos now have an extraordinary capacity to turn good ideas into practical action. I conclude, therefore, that you are about to embark on a surge of industrious and high-quality work. (P.S.: This October has five Mondays.)
Eesh :/