Wednesday, January 27, 2016
Tuesday, January 12, 2016
Mark died this morning. I was dreaming about Danniel. Kerri was with her like for some get together to which had come uninvited. I said, let's all go on vacation, before it's too late. Dan was immediately game (lol), then I opened my eyes and the phone rang.
I hope Mark is on the beautiful beach we were (are?) headed to :,(
Sunday, January 10, 2016
"More than anything else, I realized, it had to be boring to be crazy, to think the same sequence of thoughts and come up with the same set of bizarre conclusions, to voice those conclusions using the same words, several times an hour, day in and day out. It was hard to get people off their tracks." ~The Reptile Garden, Erdrich
Aaron works now at the ER in downtown Falls. The Falls is a third world country. Buildings and roads bombed out, the stink of landfills always pressing down on your face there, rooming houses are the residences and there you'll find the highest density of sex offenders on the planet - the township is paid to take them, and the garbage, and the money is pocketed by who knows who. Every woman under 30 and over 13 there is pregnant and a heroin addict. Even my friends from there, Sunshine whom I had dinner with last night, they're given opiates for nearly every ailment from an early age at urgent cares and ERs, God only knows why, 10 pill packets for free from Medicaid; their babies born addicted to one thing or another is just expected; their having to repeatedly lose jobs and lives then stop taking prescriptions long enough to feel what hurts and think straight again, that's just phases of life along with the other phases, turning 40 or getting divorced whatever. It is all the same, as Sun rightly put it, just hard then better then hard again, but the hard is a little harder the poorer you are. Yesterday Aaron and I went shopping before she came over, wine and whatnot to serve her, and we bought powerball tickets. We argued about what we would do with the money then we decided to split it, not agreeing. He would figure out how to provide free medical care in the Falls. I said, just about everyone there is a Piece of Shit. He reminded me I have friends there. I said, yeah but they want out and antibiotics doesn't get you out of anywhere. What does? I dunno...books. For me, books. (I'd help Ears start a small press for graphic novels in the back of a bookstore I would open for all 3 kids to run, full of excellent reading choices and hippie soaps whatever that The Girl would make.) (I'm not a particularly good person.) He is there now. The ER is full of homeless people escaping the cold who were made homeless last week when someone burned their rooming house down for being full of pederasts and 1000 ft from an elementary school. They came in first for smoke inhalation, now they just have nowhere else to be they say, so they complain of made up ailments. Why don't they go to the mission?, I ask. They would have to empty their pockets and shit, and not be high. I think about this, and struggle not to think 'Pieces of Shit'. I think, if I were Louise Erdrich my minds eye would perceive characters rather than charactitures in what he is looking at. So I'm reading Erdrich all day.
Aaron works now at the ER in downtown Falls. The Falls is a third world country. Buildings and roads bombed out, the stink of landfills always pressing down on your face there, rooming houses are the residences and there you'll find the highest density of sex offenders on the planet - the township is paid to take them, and the garbage, and the money is pocketed by who knows who. Every woman under 30 and over 13 there is pregnant and a heroin addict. Even my friends from there, Sunshine whom I had dinner with last night, they're given opiates for nearly every ailment from an early age at urgent cares and ERs, God only knows why, 10 pill packets for free from Medicaid; their babies born addicted to one thing or another is just expected; their having to repeatedly lose jobs and lives then stop taking prescriptions long enough to feel what hurts and think straight again, that's just phases of life along with the other phases, turning 40 or getting divorced whatever. It is all the same, as Sun rightly put it, just hard then better then hard again, but the hard is a little harder the poorer you are. Yesterday Aaron and I went shopping before she came over, wine and whatnot to serve her, and we bought powerball tickets. We argued about what we would do with the money then we decided to split it, not agreeing. He would figure out how to provide free medical care in the Falls. I said, just about everyone there is a Piece of Shit. He reminded me I have friends there. I said, yeah but they want out and antibiotics doesn't get you out of anywhere. What does? I dunno...books. For me, books. (I'd help Ears start a small press for graphic novels in the back of a bookstore I would open for all 3 kids to run, full of excellent reading choices and hippie soaps whatever that The Girl would make.) (I'm not a particularly good person.) He is there now. The ER is full of homeless people escaping the cold who were made homeless last week when someone burned their rooming house down for being full of pederasts and 1000 ft from an elementary school. They came in first for smoke inhalation, now they just have nowhere else to be they say, so they complain of made up ailments. Why don't they go to the mission?, I ask. They would have to empty their pockets and shit, and not be high. I think about this, and struggle not to think 'Pieces of Shit'. I think, if I were Louise Erdrich my minds eye would perceive characters rather than charactitures in what he is looking at. So I'm reading Erdrich all day.
Leave the dishes.
Let the celery rot in the bottom drawer of the refrigerator
and an earthen scum harden on the kitchen floor.
Leave the black crumbs in the bottom of the toaster.
Throw the cracked bowl out and don't patch the cup.
Don't patch anything. Don't mend. Buy safety pins.
Don't even sew on a button.
Let the wind have its way, then the earth
that invades as dust and then the dead
foaming up in gray rolls underneath the couch.
Talk to them. Tell them they are welcome.
Don't keep all the pieces of the puzzles
or the doll's tiny shoes in pairs, don't worry
who uses whose toothbrush or if anything
matches, at all.
Except one word to another. Or a thought.
Pursue the authentic-decide first
what is authentic,
then go after it with all your heart.
Your heart, that place
you don't even think of cleaning out.
That closet stuffed with savage mementos.
Don't sort the paper clips from screws from saved baby teeth
or worry if we're all eating cereal for dinner
again. Don't answer the telephone, ever,
or weep over anything at all that breaks.
Pink molds will grow within those sealed cartons
in the refrigerator. Accept new forms of life
and talk to the dead
who drift in though the screened windows, who collect
patiently on the tops of food jars and books.
Recycle the mail, don't read it, don't read anything
except what destroys
the insulation between yourself and your experience
or what pulls down or what strikes at or what shatters
this ruse you call necessity.
"Advice to Myself", Louise Erdrich
Let the celery rot in the bottom drawer of the refrigerator
and an earthen scum harden on the kitchen floor.
Leave the black crumbs in the bottom of the toaster.
Throw the cracked bowl out and don't patch the cup.
Don't patch anything. Don't mend. Buy safety pins.
Don't even sew on a button.
Let the wind have its way, then the earth
that invades as dust and then the dead
foaming up in gray rolls underneath the couch.
Talk to them. Tell them they are welcome.
Don't keep all the pieces of the puzzles
or the doll's tiny shoes in pairs, don't worry
who uses whose toothbrush or if anything
matches, at all.
Except one word to another. Or a thought.
Pursue the authentic-decide first
what is authentic,
then go after it with all your heart.
Your heart, that place
you don't even think of cleaning out.
That closet stuffed with savage mementos.
Don't sort the paper clips from screws from saved baby teeth
or worry if we're all eating cereal for dinner
again. Don't answer the telephone, ever,
or weep over anything at all that breaks.
Pink molds will grow within those sealed cartons
in the refrigerator. Accept new forms of life
and talk to the dead
who drift in though the screened windows, who collect
patiently on the tops of food jars and books.
Recycle the mail, don't read it, don't read anything
except what destroys
the insulation between yourself and your experience
or what pulls down or what strikes at or what shatters
this ruse you call necessity.
"Advice to Myself", Louise Erdrich
Friday, January 08, 2016
I set up a record player. Ears got paid in a box of LPs for a moving job. I sifted through, saw Patti Smith and thought 'it's time anyway.' The Girl keeps worrying where Mark's records will go to be safe for the time being. So. The boys are downstairs now playing the soundtracks of my earliest memories. The LPs came from a man who died, my dad's age. Ears looks intently at the LP covers. Who is that supposed to be? The 10 of wands, Zep 4. A funeral for a close friend last night, then I got to come home to a full house and hold a baby. I understand so much better now why Woolf called the book "The Waves". Feel happy ft. cry inconsolable.
Speaking of WI. I watch it for landscapes more than not.
Speaking of WI. I watch it for landscapes more than not.
Saturday, January 02, 2016
At what point do we develop schtick? Like, smiling on cue, playing to crowds, hedging our bets, making devils bargains? We will contest it on our own behalf, armscrossy and all, but we might not realize we demand it in turn. Do you know how much your approbations and allegiances cost for those who bank on them? Too much.
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