"breathe"

VIRGO Feelings may be generally mutual, but they are not specifically the same. It will take time to understand how another person thinks of you, though you'll never understand it fully.

It would help if people knew what they felt and said as much. But they do not, either one, generally speaking, about anything.

Bonus: breathing thru your genitals

 Cooler than through your ears by far. When crabby, you could think at your junk, "BREATHE!" (Turtles are my totem animals.)