If you hate your partner, cheat on em. I'm telling you, I have been all kinda slapped around, but this shit will fuck a person up like a tire iron. But beware, it's not much easier on the cheater either in the long run unless you have no soul. It is the the most fuckingest up thing on the scale of things you can do before you fall off the scale into no man's land of stuff like shooting up a school or molesting a kid. Seriously.