here's one [title was taken from the fray, how to save a life] , I remember FPH and I argued over its interpretation, that was back when he'd respond to content pretty regularly, only when he felt like it of course but he wasn't 'withholding' response either

conclusion: glad I didn't delete this blog after all
conclusion: I would realllly like to avoid the whole psych each other out thing wherein people have responses but won't give them to you, as if, I dunno what, as if they're gonna run out of responses to being alive so they have to conserve, or some crazy shit - I am trying convince myself that ti's something other than screwing somebody that does that, but