he's moving back to Buffalo. that's really why he came back on yoga day - they were house hunting. no discussion, no asking how Ears felt about it, he just imposes himself. had the audacity to say it's not fair to me to be raising Ears alone 👀. 

I was having an okay day. planning on a Mary visit, maybe tree shopping, then more cookies...

and now I gave swallowed a brick. Ears' first reaction "maybe I'll move back out" (run)

oversevering - there is no cure

undersevering - botched murder

could I crowdsource a solution to either? with no crowd?