"Understand why it agitates me,  talking of trips and island cabins. I don't want to talk about a fantasy future. And I don't want to try to relive your glorious traveled past, as if looking at vacation slides....Follow your first wife, or first your mistress, to hell in a cruise ship!"

New strategy. He reads not nearly as much as I do. So I can "quote" messages that I wish existed for me to quote, author and title invented, and for all his ivy league pedigree, he doesn't catch me. But hopefully he catches the DRIFTs

"Eat me raw mister!", The Liars Club, Mary Karr