Sometimes I do nothing just to sit and feel the pleasure of deciding to do nothing.
I could have fun simply choosing, regardless of what, all day long. And a sane person will choose to be happy. So a choosey sane person will choose freedom of choice. Choosey people will choose to be with the ones who make them feel free, while not incidental. It is a wonderful thing to be able to do, if you think about it, to be able to care about someone (and thus about her/his large choices) but not to impose on her/him.
I'm studying it.
While I study my limitations.