.“. . . you will soon be dealing with a challenge you have faced before: how to synchronize your two major archetypes, the lover and the warrior. You will be asked to cultivate the tender, considerate instincts of the lover within you while simultaneously feeding the fiery discipline of your inner warrior . . .”

if only I could bow-pull my way through life

The problem with wrath is the same as lust. You have to desire to not-desire, so good luck with that. And when you don’t want to be angry, you’re pissed off that you are. Between the lover and the warrior, of course the warrior is going to win [I mean, who gets to workout more? Duh.] and will probably spout some bullshit about self empowerment into your inner-ear too just to add insult to injury.