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I had a day at work.   That means I spend the day being the person that people expect and accept that I am.   Mostly, I actually am that per...

love home trust body idealism faith scrutiny ability sorrow joy past future present ... I've given all I had of all my concrete an...

The video is stupid of course - don't watch it, just play it LOUD, really loud. And run a mile at daybreak. High rec

http://m.bbc.com/news/science-environment-29545469  and  http://psychcentral.com/news/2013/07/27/love-hormone-oxytocin-tied-to-social-anxiet...

I remember the first time I saw Danny's work, long before his first show and I started to buy it then more of it, a piece that reso...

Him: You're like the horse in Animal Farm. Me: Him: Ya know? Dropped dead? "Everything can be solved if you work harder"? M...

"You know greed has nothing to do with money right?" (She didn't know.) Iyanla then explained to her that greed is taking more...

Now that I don't have Facebook, I have to put my stupid(er) shit here too

Update: I saw my shrink.  And yeah, No. (armscrossy) 

I feel bone-ass crazy anymore.   I can’t tell what is reasonable or not, I can’t tell if it’s me or is it him, can’t tell my own ass from ...

Relationship Koan   What is holding us together, in some ways closer than ever for the exposure in it? Sex. What is ripping us apart, inexor...

I got us both a self-disclosure journal so we could practice "deep listening", ala Thich Nhat Hahn. came and I opened to this ...

I don't know when or how (when we got married I would say but he would disagree) being with Aaron became the same thing as being. But ...

Astrology 101: WHAT IS VIRGO LIKE? Virgos are the problem solvers of the world. This sign has the patience, analytical ability and mental te...

  I send heart energy down my arms across his back.   I think recoiling, I’d hate to have my hands elsewhere or another’s hands on m...

VIRGO  TODAY: "You'll say goodbye to a fantasy and come to accept that there really is no happily ever after — only a happy today...

walking across the Brooklyn Bridge in each his typical mood

“You know what a relationship is about to you. The other person has an entirely different set of reasons for being there.” I’m on this ...

VIRGO TODAY: You know what a relationship is about to you. The other person has an entirely different set of reasons for being there. Gett...

Nice. Goes well with the Emerson quote. Which are both the opposite of the 'fuck a bunch of this' that I feel.

"Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience." Emerson

"I am often questioning myself what I further want to do, who I further wish to be; which parts of me, exactly, are still functioning p...

This Woman Took A Photo Of Herself Every Day For A Year. I Was In Tears When I Saw The Last One. I feel the anti-selfie mojo, especially...

She didn't tell him she'd known any mud engineers before or about the one she'd heard was killed by a pressurized hose. The hose...

"This is your life and it's ending one minute at a time." Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club

http://trauma.blog.yorku.ca/2013/12/love-is-war-post-infidelity-stress-disorder-2/ it's 4:30 in the morning (again).  guess I'm at...

Ah Facebook philosophizing. Words to not possibly live by, all day long, with and without cats and cartoons. Why would this be true? Wo...

. . . a rebel without a cause, an agitator without a slogan, a revolutionary without a program: in other words, his rebelliousness is aimed ...

My shrink is a magician. Literally, she also is a witch, a referral from the Witch otherwise I’d not have gotten a slot with her.   Like ...

Between rounds of shrink appointments, we just are.   We float in the hot tub and talk.   He hates therapy like he hated yoga,...