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Why You Gotta Be That Way by Ina Forsman

What lives have you had? You learn about people that way, telling stories. Sooner or later, though, the stories lead to Now. If you have shared many past lives in the talkingtalking, by the time you get to speaking of Now, you've created common ground. The word "we" sneaks in to your vocabulary. "We" both always like this or do that, ha ha ha.

It sneaks up on ya.

Has my next catastrophe begun? Or was this just a warning shot across my bow? I never knew how to know that - are you a Thing? - until blammo the man has kidnapped me from my senses. Like in a horror movie, leaning in for a closer look always gets you swallowed whole. Usually it's perfectly safe, tho, cz men talk smack nonstop but they don't MEAN anything, (when is the last time you mustered something as simple as 'I like you'?, face it men are emotionally impaired, cannot compute), which is why moooost of the time they're great in the f-zone.

But I should think about what I DO want and not just what I do NOT. He has asked me multiple times, What do you really want? He never added FROM ME. What if he does?, I suddenly wonder. And the first answer that pops into my head surprises me.

the avalanches - bc I'm me

tellling myself jokes

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VIRGO  When it comes to friendship, you don't need a certain number of them to be happy, you just need to be certain of the ones you've got.  You'll see who you can count on, and it's both a good feeling and a good thing to know.

Perfect.

I saw a woman at a stop light swipeflirt apping. Why while driving? Easy deduction - she is in a relationship already, looking for greener grasses in stolen moments. 

Emerson's oversoul gives advice

VIRGO. There have been times when you decided not to want because wanting is a risk. Wanting sets a person up for possible disappointment. The way to want well is to want what's best for all.

...misanthropes have the secret desire to be heard. We keep it secret out of fear or anger or anxiety, but it bothers us no end. We want to be found out, even, and perhaps especially, when we’re most hidden. American Philosophy A Love Story

who ya gonna hoodoo now - tony joe white

snowstorm ft eclipse

The Philosophy of Loyalty. Loyalty: It is the most two-faced of virtues—one that is absolutely necessary for one’s moral growth but also extremely easy to pervert. Hard to create and easy to destroy, it is a word for the downtrodden, for the hope, however slim, that one is not lost. According to Royce, loyalty was not a Kantian call to duty, but a heartfelt sense of belonging to a greater whole. Loyalty was the animating spirit of love and the power that could spare individuals from their feelings of quiet desperation. In the face of calamity, loyalty enters the scene, and though it might not save the day, it can make the day so much more bearable. ~American Philosophy, A Love Story

An herb garden in a greenhouse table that Ears put together for me. I will plant it tonight under the full wolf moon eclipse. Straight up old fashioned kitchen witchery.

What would you grow in a pot if you could? Money? Friends? Plane tickets?

And what would give up to have that? Your time, your freedom, your savings? If you don't want to give anything, don't want anything. That is the rule of wanting: be prepared to pay for it.

Brace yourself.

"Thoreau was wrong, most men live lives of quiet masturbation." John Goodman

What are the chances that a friend sends this pic to me from Florida just hours of after I hear that quote?Guess that's the weekend love horoscope:

You ain't gone piss me off, cause you sorry that you done that

cold comfort lane - holy moly and the crackers

him: your ass is perfect, I could rest my weary head on it all day
me: how can a girl argue with that sentiment?

The language of the body is chemistry. It's touch, exertion, rest, food, hormones, temperature and the like. Speak the body's language to achieve your goals.

WEEKEND LOVE FORECAST: ARIES: There are so many ways to communicate love. If you only stick to your favorites, you'll miss the other person's favorites. TAURUS: Get into nature with someone you like and the relationship will get more animal. GEMINI: You'll enjoy one glorious date more than five unremarkable ones. Budget accordingly. CANCER: Sharing similar beliefs will be essential, as ultimately, you're unlikely to keep appreciating a person who is too far away from your worldview. LEO: It doesn't have to be all about your partner. You need your own space. And you'll learn more and develop yourself further when you do something just for you. VIRGO: Your take on a relationship? You're still deciding. There are a few different versions, depending on your mood. LIBRA: You'll be chosen, whether or not you want to be. SCORPIO: Strength is attractive but vulnerability is even more so. You have to be very strong to let others know your weaknesses. SAGITTARIUS: Be careful not to mistake a person for some hero you made up in your head. CAPRICORN: Passionate kisses will be yours. AQUARIUS: Sharing a space with another person is easier when you also have your own space somewhere else. PISCES: Your friendliness and breezy sociability net you many invitations.

Got a song?

Back to work. My stressball committed suicide over the break. I should clean it up but it slays me every time I look at it. The look on its face, the rainbow guts..

VIRGO Your role will go far beyond your job description. It's more like you're playing the composite of many roles: coach, parent, psychologist, partner, cheerleader and more.

Gonna be Ms Thang, got it..

dont believe the hype - public enemy

Putting it out there for someone playlist:

never gonna give you up - rick astley

you're only lonely - jd souther

brand new key - melanie

Bonus track, one of the first songs FPH ever sent me, if you wanna lay it on thick youre beautiful - james blunt

VIRGO A real friend brings out the best in you, is undaunted by your weakness and unthreatened by your greatness and generally seems to amplify your strengths just by being near.

That sounds GREAT. Where do find one of those? I hope he's got a penis too, that'd be handy.

"I just really want..."

What?

"Joy."

imelda may - call me

  

2019 COMES WITH 5 ECLIPSES Capricorn will be predominant influence with three out of five eclipses occurring in it’s sign. This means that the house in your chart that is ruled by Capricorn will be meeting many changes starting with this eclipse...During this New Moon/Solar Eclipse, set the intentions for the life you want to create. What is it that you want to expand on? What do you want to achieve this year?



I want

madgiggle, fave episode

high hope - glen hansard

"music blends with the heartbeat universe and we forget the brain beat" ~Kerouac

ha, just noticing that she snuck a couple of lovebirds nzling doggiestyle in here (snort)

bonusbird - how to fix a round cage (snort)

new mural 

“The only way of knowing a person is to love them without hope.” —Walter Benjamin

rusholme ruffians - the smiths

card of the year

who by fire - leonard cohen

I like repeating numbers.  They just look right. Tidy. At 1:11 o'clock, thunder blooooooomed overhead.